About Me
Yes, it's me. So is the other one.
I am a single girl dating in Los Angeles, aka LA LA Land. I decided to blog because it’s cheaper than therapy.
I’ve been single for a few years now. I was married for 10 years and noticed that dating in the new millennium is quite different than dating in, well, the old millennium. Adapting has been a bit challenging, and I’m sure some of this is due in part to me being older, wiser, and perhaps, just a wee bit more cynical. It’s all very Sex & the City. (Different city.)
To be honest, I don’t dislike being single. I can come and go as I please, don’t have to answer to anyone and exercise full control of the remote. I have terrific friends and I travel, have a great time, and take advantage of all this crazy city has to offer. In some ways I’m afraid of losing that freedom if and when I meet someone. But I’m not getting any younger and I’m going to need someone to change me when my ass is back in diapers.
In all seriousness, I don’t really want to get married, but I would really, really like to have someone to hug and kiss and squeeze. And love and respect and share my life with. Okay… writing that last line was kinda scary. But true.
Offers of jewels or book deals may be sent to singlegirlie [at] ymail [dot] com.
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Hi there! I just wanted you to know that I nominated you for the Versatile Blogger Award! I think your blog is awesome! You can check out what it’s about at: http://lostdododesigns.wordpress.com/2012/03/29/the-versatile-blogger-award/.
I really enjoy you blog! As a proud single girl thanks for your awesome insights and the laughs.
Hi there. I’ve been reading your site since discovering it a few months back, and finally worked up the nerve to say hi and send a request. Your writing is very alive & insightful, and I would love to see you take on the following topic…
My girlfriend & her friends and I recently had a big debate on the difference between ‘making love’ and fucking.…From a physical standpoint, what is your definition of ‘making love’? Slow with eye contact seems to be the general female perspective, but my argument was that even if you are having a quickie, or being rough even, as long as there’s trust and respect, then you can still be ‘making love’.
Just wanted to get a single girl bloggers perspective with the usual wit and humor.
Thanks so much and keep writing!
C. Ungor
Hi yourself. I will take your suggestion into consideration. It might take me a minute to write something, but I will make an attempt.
Thank you so much for your kind words. I’m blushing. I’m glad you said hi. This is a personal invitation from me to comment any time you get the urge.
Have been reading your Greatest Hits. One word- HILARIOUS!
Glad I’ve found your blog, I am doing the similar thing and have just started few weeks back so my blog is a bit amateur-ish. : ) Would be great if you can check it out and feedback!
You wrote, “don’t have to answer to anyone.”
You don’t have to answer to anyone, anyway. See this:
http://alphamusings.wordpress.com/2011/07/08/where-have-you-been-who-wants-to-know/
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Enjoy reading your blog. I think you are cool single lady..i can relate
thank for ur web. I found it just now. I will follow thus.
You. Are. Hot.
Hi,
I enjoy reading your posts . I would love you invite me as a guest bloguer
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Thank you
Love love LOVE this. When it comes to dating, I’d almost rather sit at home and watch an entire season of 2 and a Half Men, followed by the extended version of Gigli.
I hope you don’t mind if I use your blog as my therapy also (only because I don’t have coverage.:))
Really enjoyed reading your blog so far. Have just started my own so have linked you so people can see what a good blog is like once they have finished looking at mine
Love your blog. Keep it going.
I was in a relationship for ten years. Then he left me via a text message on my birthday saying, “I am moving out. Already found a new place to live! I hope we can be friends.”
Yes, that exclamation mark was really in the text, and no, he didn’t actually hope we could be friends. So I’m a single girl dating in Orange County. I’ve met a lot of Asian Republicans while speed dating.
I’m pretty sure I love you.
i love u too
You’d have been ravishing in an A-Ha video.
I’m adding you to my DelVecchio-approved links.
About damn time, right?
Best,
Double D
This A-HA comment is why I listen to the entire Winger album every night and cry – because Denny makes it hurt so good. Genius.
I really enjoyed your writing. And I hope you find that man
I’m a professional wingman. Don’t judge. It’s all very Hitch. Anyway, go out alot. Have fun. Look for interesting people. Don’t look at every one as the ONE. HE is out there. The one you want to snuggle with. Just be interesting so the guy that’s looking for someone interesting to talk to looks at you and says to himself, “Wow! She looks interesting.”
Just watched yesterday’s clip in which Hoda and Kathie Lee interview two “unplugged” dating experts. One of their recommendations–have a great wingman! : )
I completely agree re. the wingman (or wing girl as I like to call them). I’ve found it’s good to suss out a venue before you go so you can take the right kind and number of wing girls with you. Meeting men involves so much strategy these days! Not sure on the situation in the US, but in Oz we have a major man drought…makes getting your strategy right even more important…
Found your blog via twitter. Wow, tell me about it. I’ve been dating for the past 5 years after being with ex wife for 10. I can relate. Dating now is not the same as it was. More power to you and good luck.
wow – so glad I found your blog. While I wasn’t married for ten years, I was with my ex-husband for 10 (married for just under 3) and also find dating now SO much different than uh, when I was 20! Will be reading your posts!