Well, well, well. Welcome back. I knew you’d come. The time has drawn to answer the question: did she or didn’t she do the nasty with Tom on their 24-hour third date?
So come with me on this ride. I’ll skip the boring details about the pizza and the movie and get right down to the nitty gritty.
We were sitting on Tom’s sofa pretending to watch Juno (we all know popping in a DVD is just pretense for “we’re about to get busy”) when we started kissing.
Now, before the date started I honestly wasn’t sure if I was going to sleep with him or not. I was going to wait and see how things went, and if it felt right, I’d go for it.
The moment our tongues touched I felt a thunder from down under and I knew I wanted him. He was being all gentlemanly so I took matters into my own hands. I climbed on top, straddled him and gave him one of my most sensual kisses. Hey, it’s been four months and I like sex, motherfuckers.
We moved to the bedroom, made out some more and began to disrobe.
The Reveal
Whenever I start dating a new guy, the inaugural penis unveiling is always an exciting event. The unzipping-of-the-pants and pulling-out-of-the-dong always makes me feel like a kid at Christmas. I’ve been waiting and wondering for weeks — now lemme see what’s in the package!
Will it be an anaconda or an earthworm? Will it be fat, skinny, long, short, curved to the right, curved to the left, big head, little head, veiny, wrinkly, what, WHAT?
I have seen a dick or 30 in my life, and I can attest that no two are the same. So tell me, Tom, what lies beneath?
I unzipped, pulled out and…
Anaconda, baby.
I’m talking holy Trojan Magnum XXL, Batman! I am quite petite and was seriously afraid this guy might split me in two. And truth be told, I’m not really a big cock aficionado. If I had my pick from a buffet-o-dick, I’d probably select a medium-sized one.
I’ve always viewed giant penises as more of a novelty than an indicant of hot sex. As in, “WOW, look at the size of that thing! Now, get it away from me!” They’re fun to marvel at but the sex isn’t always better and there is often pain involved.
Nonetheless, Tom was gentle and it was actually going pretty well. For a while.
Member Malfunction
We were going at it for several minutes until I felt what every woman has experienced at some point in her sexual life. All of a sudden, I was making love to al dente pasta.
I never know how to handle this. I used to get upset, thinking I just wasn’t turning him on, but I’ve read enough men’s magazines to know that it probably had nothing to do with me. I wore the sexy underthings and he kept telling me I looked hot, so I didn’t think it was my fault.
I could tell he was a little freaked out. He told me he recently started taking anti-anxiety meds and that his doctor said they might cause sexual side effects.
I was supportive and understanding. I told him I’d heard those drugs could in fact cause such reactions (I had) and we kissed and cuddled. But damn. I wanted to get my freak on.
I saw him again on Wednesday and we decided to give it another go. This time, he had no problem staying in the game… he just couldn’t bring it home. We tried a few things but alas, his wad was not to be shot. In fact, he said he hadn’t ejaculated in two weeks, even through self-love. The medication was clearly tampering with his system.
On the up side, I got a nice long romp out of it, but I felt bad for him. I want my man to shoot his wad. What can I say? I’m a giver.
It’s a bit of a quandary because he says the meds are helping him, but he wants to stop taking them if this is the result. We’ll keep trying but the decision ultimately has to be his. It’s not my place to make decisions for someone else’s mental health… or gargantuan penis.
So long story short: yep, I got laid!
Categories: True Story
Single Girl Blogging 
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One worthwhile addition is that larger “members” are more prone to ED issues as well. I’m saying this as a well-endowed guy–which I guess is bragging and humbling at the same time (hung but not as “verile”) haha.
I can get the job done, and even worked in porn a few years back (full on San Fernando Valley style–legit with famous girls, etc.). However, I NEVER can get as hard as my more modestly endowed buddies. I have one friend I call the Energizer Bunny, and he lives up to the name. He’s in the average 6.5″ range, I’d guess.
I’m 9 inches for the record. I’d say it’s probably just physics, and has to do with an increase in overall volume and need for blood once you had 30-50% more cock. Kind of makes sense…
I’m on antidepressants and hypertension meds. I feel bad for Tom, but also relieved that I’m not the only guy with this problem. Thank you for sharing this story.
Anaconda penis for the win! Oh and all the other stuff you said as well.
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i am looking for an interested woman :i am a white guy
this is my yahoo : yassineyassine222@yahoo.com
Did you read this post, you freak? Did you not learn anything?
Isn’t your brother Nigerian Royalty? He keeps wiring me thousands of dollars–all that damned money, I’m sorry I ever gave him my bank info. Tell him to stop.
read this blog it looks funny, the girl has some issues
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This post it quite funny and love the fact that you get laid and not still be like……. aHHHHHHHH
OMG this post is hilarious !! 😀
Your blogs are absolutely hysterical! I have to be honest, I was a lil concerned at first when my boyfriend told me he followed a singlegirls blog, and/or singles/dating blogs for that matter. I mean why follow those blogs if you are in a committed relationship. After reading a few of your blogs I now understand comepletely. Not only that, I may now become totally addicted to reading your stuff!!!!
It’s funny because you and Tom have had a few similar experiences as my bf and I have had, so it’s nice to see another’s perspective relating to similar instances.
Hi Denise, I am so glad you’ve enjoyed them, thanks!
One of the most rewarding things about writing this blog is learning how others have undergone similar experiences and that I’m not alone in my craziness. Cheers!
Wow, this guy sounds like my ex! Is he a musician by chance?
He IS! Why? What traits does he share with your musician?
May I ask which instrument he plays? Which restaurant in Burbank? Ha, well, there are a few other things you mentioned. Hopefully just a coincidence!!
I blog anonymously in part to protect the identities of the people I write about, so I can’t really divulge those details. I dated a musician a few years ago though, and he had very similar traits – sweet, passionate, big schlong. There are a lot of them in LA.
Oh, of course! I know. Other things aside from those traits and being a musician; when you mentioned Juno, the challenge/meds and that one comment about being bored while he slept and the timing of when you met. I accidentally found this site.You were suggested as someone to follow and as I was reading, my eyes bugged because it sounds all too familiar. Anyway, great blogging/writing!
Thank you! When did you guys break up? (BTW, we didn’t really watch Juno. We also didn’t eat in Burbank – I sometimes change names and insignificant details to maintain the anonymity. And the meds are a new thing. :))
We broke up quite recently. Really not that long ago. No, it was more like the examples you’ve been giving. I too would change names/insignificant details and I do when I am blogging as well. 🙂 Yes, the meds, he said was a new thing too when we met, but then I found out the situation wasn’t as new once we got to know each other better. My guy is a musician, but is not currently touring/playing out @ the moment.
I just read your tweet! Okay, is he a native and is he tall?
Native? What does that mean?
Oh, sorry! I meant to ask if he is a California native. Is he originally from CA or elsewhere?
Sounds like when I dated “The Italian”. He wasn’t circumsized and when it finally unveiled itself, I almost died of heart failure. Boo-yah!
Oh, yeah, the first time I saw one of those was a real doozy.
Loving this blog! Had to jump in on this particular thread cuz…I haven’t had the un-circumsized treat yet…will my eyes pop??
Well, maybe you can Google it and it won’t be such a surprise. It’s just… different. But still works fine 🙂
Hehe 😉
i snarfed the chocolate mousse dessert i probably shouldn’t be eating anyway when i got to the snake pic.
What does snarf mean?
snarf : when one is eating and is provoked by something funny which causes them to laugh and expel said food out of nasal passages; may also come out of mouth. also applies to liquids.
dood i was eating my lunch at school and this chick said somethign hilarious and i totally snarfed sandwich all over the place
source: urbandictionary.com
It might be one of two things – a condom issue or a comfort issue. Some guys have a really hard (heh heh) time getting it up and or blasting with a jimmy hat. I might or might not be one of those. Maybe you guys can get tested and go bareback?
The comfort thing is anxiety due to being intimate with someone for the first or second time. Then when you’re comfortable it’s all good. This has happened to me one or two times.
So combine those elements. If he still can’t get the job done, houston we have a problem.
Well, the al dente thing might’ve been a comfort/condom thing, but fortunately we haven’t had a problem with that again. But the blasting part I’m fairly sure is the meds. He can’t even get himself off, and men are pretty much the experts at that.
HAHAHAH this is great. As for size, I agree with mommasunshine – the big guys think the fact they have a ginourmous cock is a free pass to lay there. It’s the medium (read: normal) guys that are really in it. Personally I have a fear of small, little teeny ones. Eeek!
Well, fortunately, Tom is actually pretty good at it. So I guess I hit the jackpot. But I’ve had amazing sex with medium and even less-than-medium guys. Skill and choreography definitely count!
Totally got laid last night for the win! I hope things work out alright, nothing like really really liking someone and make out a lot and then not get any.
Niiiiice!
lol “A penis story”
Has quite a ring to it, doesn’t it?
sigh
Oh Denny. If I recall correctly you recently pointed to MC Hammer as your evil crotch twin. What was it? Smuggling a small Peruvian child in a banana hammock? You’ve nothing to sigh over.
And I hope you know this is all designed to make you insanely jealous, my darling. I couldn’t just sit back and do nothing after you banged those slutty sisters Lambrusco.
Denny Dance doesn’t begrudge you enjoying passion’s sweet fruits–as long as it is with him.
But I must be clear, jealousy is not an emotion that I have ever experienced personally, although I’ve heard it’s quite awful.
And, for the record, Denny donated his amorous calling card six times last evening between seven different women.
sigh.
*Nice* post. All I got 🙂
Well, thanks, darling!
Aw, man. That’s a tough situation for all parties involved. And frankly, you get a gold star not only for being so understanding about the anxiety meds induced ED, but not making Tom feel even worse than he probably did BOTH times. And sometimes the side-effects are only temporary, so hopefully all the kinks will work themselves out (heh…) so that BOTH of you can let your freak flags fly!!!
Let’s hope so! Men are so sensitive when it comes to that region. I figured I shouldn’t add insult to injury.
I’ve had my share of larger than the ‘norm’ and even the medicated. He should ask his doc if there’s stuff he can take that can assist with the ‘side effects’. There’s herbal shit (teehee) that can conquer the wad issues. 🙂
Yeah, I’m thinking he should talk to the doc just to see what his options are. It’s kind of bumming him out.
As a meds-taker, I can assure you that those effects settle down after the body adjusts, and his wad-abilities will return!
That is really good to know. Thank you!
I am afraid sexual side effects do not subside with SSRI usage. What is notable about the sexual side effects is that its the only side effect on a long list of SSRI side effects that stick with you throughout the duration. In fact, in rare cases, post SSRI sexual dysfunction can occur, so even after you quit you may have trouble. I am guessing several people will not believe me but this is info that is easy to come by folks.
When it comes to the buffet-o-dick I prefer medium, too. Seems to me like the guys with the giant cocks think that just showing up is enough. It’s the guys that are a little bit insecure about their size that spend the most time honing their boning skills.
Honing their boning? Look at you, girl, you’re a regular Longfellow (just like Tom)!
child, it’s always one thing or another with men–I mean, do you want the explosion after the deed or do you want him to freak out & have an anxiety attack when there’s no more toilet paper on the roll? good grief!
Oh, honey, I’M fine – I mean, I’m personally happy to do without the mess.
But I feel bad for him, I imagine it must be pretty frustrating. He said he’s all backed up. Poor guy 😦 But yeah, he has to decide which is more important. It’s really quite a pickle. Well, a hell of a lot larger than a pickle…
Yay for getting laid but boo to the meds! Hopefully it sorts itself out soon… Btw, I also LOVE the reveal and agree on medium-sized as I’m petite, too 😉
Yeah, but now I’ve got a big one so gotta figure out how to navigate my way around that thing. Well, I like a challenge 🙂
Good story, good story.
Gracias 🙂
Meds are trouble, no? Penises, however,….well, they’re trouble too.
Yes… and yes.
so like, re: al dente pasta night, he COULD’VE just helped you out…? My face went all scrunchy went I read that you kissed and cuddled…I would’ve been all “aw gee Tom that sucks…start licking.” But that’s just me…this from the girl who’s taken a vow of celibacy. meh.
Hahaha – start licking. Ya know, after four months of celibacy and 10 minutes of his giant johnson I was kind of okay down there for the time being.
Ha! What a story – a bummer on his issues but hey, at least you had a great time and well, got laid. Go you! 🙂
Yeah… All in all, not bad!
Anti-anxiety meds and an anaconda schlong? If this is a normal guy, suddenly I feel like a virgin again (and not in that crappy, totally lying “born again” way) 😉
Just like Madonna! You made it through the wilderness…