I have a new sexual fantasy. The old one was all about doing it in a kiddie pool filled with baby oil. The other old one was doing it anywhere with Mark Wahlberg. But this new one involves doing it with… you’re not gonna believe it, but… a male escort.
It’s not because I can’t get laid. I mean, Jesus Christ, I’m a WOMAN. I could very easily step outside at any time of day and find someone to poke me within five minutes. Or I could go online and find someone within five seconds.
But in this fantasy, I don’t want some random schmuck — I want a pro. Someone model-hot, who knows what the FUCK he’s doing, to come over and do exactly what I want, for as long as I want — and I don’t have to do a goddamned thing.
Don’t get me wrong, under normal circumstances I love the reciprocal nature of sex. But in my fantasy, it’s all about ME. No BJ, no jackhammer, no reverse cowgirl, no tolerating bad oral and absolutely no ball work. And while I’m not always 100% comfortable ordering around a regular guy like the motherfucking G-spot Gestapo, I’d be cool doing it with an escort.
OK, truthfully, I can’t actually imagine it happening. I mean, I can’t really see myself as a john, even though a gay Thai hooker thought differently. But if times get tough, well, who knows.
But in the midst of this dreaming about male ‘tutes, I stumbled across a real one on Twitter! He’s an Italian stallion living in London and his name is Leonardo Love. He agreed to let me interview him, and his answers are very honest and quite enlightening.
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Really cool interview. For me intelligence has to match looks. Just one or the other does not cut it. We can get those anywhere now without much effort. I see no problem when we have to pay to have it all. I second Ashley, Aleksander Boudin has it all. Definitely a charmer. Always a hot time that never disappoints!
Excellent interview, I loved it! The guy seemed to be very honest. Well, I frequently hire gigolos on my trips (I am a 40’s executive type woman with no time for relationships) and so far I have found Los Angeles and Las Vegas to be by far the best place to hire men.
One thing that everybody should be aware when hiring a male companion is the “gay effect”. When you find someone on the listing sites, GOOGLE HIS NAME! Many times he will advertises as a straight escort but then you will find the same name and pictures on gay sites. That’s one thing we – women – should really watch out for. We DO want to have fun but we want to make sure that we stay healthy after all and there is a much higher risk with men who meet other men for this type of activity.
I am not sure if I am allowed to link here so I am just going to say it:
LOS ANGELES: Go with Gabriel or Lee!
LAS VEGAS: Go with Aleksander Boudin! He many times frequents Los Angeles too and New York city.
I am into GQ types with a side of brain 😉 If that’s your type too, you will have a great time!
Hope this helps!
Hey Leanne,
Thanks for the recommendation. I am single woman who loves to explore her adventurous side from time to time and I contacted Aleksander when I was in Las Vegas. WOW! What a man!!!!
Picking guys online is honestly a very scary thing for a girl like me even though I like to have fun sometimes but most of the profiles I have seen are unprofessional.
Anyway, thanks again, Mr. Boudin is a GEM!
I agree. I contacted Aleksander Boudin before my trip out to Las Vegas. He put me at ease right from the get go. I enjoyed his wit, charm, enthusiasm and those beautiful eyes he has. He is a sophisticated, and well-traveled gentleman with unlimited energy and potential. I already flew him out to visit me where I live and the experience was even better now that we knew each other. I plan on seeing him regularly. Drop-dead gorgeous man!
I am joining the Aleksander Boudin fan club here. What a man! OMG! He seems to have built up a very loyal (and rich) clientele. Many of them my wallet can’t compete with but we still have a lot of fun every time we meet, it is just that I have to limit it to a 24-hour period each time we see each other. I wish I had the budget, the company of this gorgeous and smart man is worth every dollar!
xx
Ashley
That’s amazing thanks!
Set up simple codes she can use: “up” or “down” for where to move your hand, for example. Or ask her, “How’s this feel, one to 10?” then vary the pressure.
That’s an interesting interview!
I really like your article.Thank you. !!
This Leonardo fantasy may be interesting for women, but one would have to be a dim wit to believe it.
Good! Its great blog about how to please a women interview. This blog is really very helpful for a man who want to please a women on their dating . Thanks for great blog.
You had me at “unlimited stamina.” lol. I wish you were in the US.
oh you are too kind 😉 …well, I travel sometimes. There is a possibility I will come in US in September, but I am not sure yet
Wow! Its great article about how to please a women interview. As a man i really like this article & this was very helpful for me. Thanks for great article.
its an interesting article to read about. how to please a women interview. its a very difficult task to satisfy a women. we must have to get that much knowledge
yes sex id healthy to human life .im really good marry me.
What is wrong with hiring a woman to have sex with you again? I can’t seem to comprehend what the issues are.
Sigh…a male escort is something about which I’ve dreamed for years. Sadly, I feel as though I’d be a chore as I’m slowly losing the battle of weight management.
On a side note: after trolling the interwebz for straight male escorts for women, the offerings are either scary, skeevy, self-delusional, or way out of the average woman’s league. Guys like Leonardo are as rare as hen’s teeth.
thank you very much!!! xxx I am sure you will win at the end 😉
Great post and interesting read. Thank you for sharing
I just realized that the correct address for my Adultwork profile is http://www.adultwork.com/Leonardo+Love
Thank you to everyone for your comments xxx and especially to Naomi 😉 I will read your blog from time to time, as it is very funny!!!
You are most welcome, and thank YOU for an enlightening interview! Seems like people really enjoyed it. xx
Interesting! I thought it was going to be a joke interview at first, but it was real! I’m sure it makes him even more appealing to know that he enjoys it too and it’s not just a job 🙂
Haha, yeah, I guess it would be like me to post a joke interview. But yeah, totally real! Not terribly surprising that he likes it haha.
looking 2 get into escorting, got tips
As a man, this was really insightful, it’s also interesting to see how the escort industry works
I agree. Loved his honesty.
Don’t think I haven’t thought about this. I just wrote a post yesterday about how it’s been a full year with no sex – and no end in sight. If there was a straight male escort service here, I would be calling.
Well… Leonardo travels! Hit him up, girl! And then share deets 🙂
His advice should be sent to all men in the world!
Agree – spread the word, loves!
Woah interesting!!
I thought so, too!
I’m kind of tempted to email him and be all “hey, you’re rad. Ps please give me a free pic cos I’m cheapskate” hahaha
I have a feeling he would oblige 😉
Reblogged this on naughtygirlwrites and commented:
Maybe an alternative option for the awkward Valentines Day scenario.
Thanks for the reblog! Yes, I imagine Leonardo would make a better V-Day date than Netflix and a dildo 🙂
Wow this is interesting. Glad to know he wears condoms but what about the oral sex part? Is he considering protection during that?
Hmmm, IDK. Maybe he’ll pop in here and answer…
Hi there! Thanks for the question, which needs a quite detailed answer.
Yes I consider it when I am not sure about the girl hygiene and when meeting Couples. In Receiving Oral Sex (from a girl) it is very very unlikely to get serious STDs unless Deep Throating (which I do only with condoms if someone asks…); minor ones can be transmitted more often though, but nothing serious only annoying.
About Giving Oral (to a girl) it is pratically impossible to get something serious if the Oral Sex is mainly on the Clit or mainly external. Deep Oral, which I do love, has a higher risk but anyway much less risky compared to Oral Sex given to a man in terms of getting serious STDs. Just take care of how is your skin after shaving and decide.
I sometimes used a little sheet of plastic, but I know that there are special condoms…I had never found them around though 😦 😦
To finish it is statistically proven that Oral Sex is VERY LOW risk in normal conditions (no period, no other skin problems etc…). I think there are much more serious risks in life 😉
I totally understand where you are coming from, however, herpes is a serious disease that can be spread through receiving oral sex. Sure there are far worse things to do than give/receive oral sex but I can agree that yes if you are engaging in this with multiple partners, a dental dam or condom should still be present. no matter if the person appears “clean” or not. There are many STDs that do not show telltale signs. Oral sex is the most frequently overlooked because people believe it to be so “highly unlikely” but it is something that is still sex and therefore is still risky enough that a condom needs to be used regularly especially having a career in the sex industry.
well, I get tested monthly when I am very active, and up to now I am perfectly clean. Two consecutive tests (now and two months ago) without risky sex between them, so I am clean at 100%.
Anyway I agree, and I do use the condom as I said unless I see something suspicious. Actually secondary STIs have external symtomps so it is quite easy to decide to do protected oral with them or avoid it at all. Dental Dams are very rare to find, that’s the problem.
It is not that “people believe”, it was statistically proven that serious STDs are very very unlikely to be passed by Oral Sex. Especially from female to male, it is practically impossible.
About Herpes it is true, however it is passed mainly when you have external symptoms, so again you can avoid Oral Sex…and in USA 80% of sexual active people have it, so goodluck XDXD
Thanks for clarifying. It seems like you have things figured out so that’s great, best of luck
very informative post…….I admit he has a fab bod (yes, I peeked at his website)……great interview….
He sure does! Thanks – glad to have enlightened you!
oh thank you very much!! Just to let you know…those pics were taken a few months ago, now I have 3-4 kg of (natural) muscles more xxx 😉
So this is why I am an unemployed Male escort
Well… at least now you know?
Great interview, nice to see a person so in touch with his sexuality.
True, he really is, and I loved the honesty.
Excellent information (I wouldn’t quibble with one word of it) that it took me decades of trial-and-error about people and parts to learn the basic truths conveyed in youe interview. The women who let me enter their lives and beds would have been satisfied much better if I had read this at age 17, and if I had recognized it to be true. It should be required reading for young men, or men of any age for that matter.
Spread the word!